5 Ways Teachers Can Help Students with Anxiety in the Classroom
Anxiety that impacts daily life affects 1 in 8 children, meaning that in a classroom of 25 students, 3 will be suffering from anxiety throughout the school day. Each child affected will exhibit different symptoms and react to situations in various ways. The level of anxiety will also vary greatly, from subtle distraction to outright defiance. Due to such variances in how and why anxiety presents itself, there is no clear path to follow in regards to helping a student manage their anxiety.
Teachers, school administrators, and parents must work together to create a plan to help each individual child as needs arise. Below, you will find information for teachers and parents highlighting common types of anxiety seen in schools, frequent reactions shown by anxious students, and accommodations that can be implemented to help students with anxiety in the classroom. (If your child is struggling with severe anxiety, needing more attention than what can be provided by the classroom teacher, click here to read Tips and Tools to Help Anxious Children at School.
Anxiety essentially hijacks the brain, keeping it from working in the way that is was intended. The anxious thought or action takes over, stopping the student from rational thoughts. Simply asking a student to “calm down” or telling them “you are fine” is honestly insulting. It implies that they can turn off the anxiety and return to the task at hand. If you remember this each and every time you interact with an anxious student, you are already more helpful than most people! No matter how frustrated you become, think about how awful your student feels having to experience their anxiety. Empathy and understanding is a must for anything below to be effective.
Possible Causes of Anxiety in the Classroom
Anxiety is caused by many factors, occurring either in isolation or along with another illness or disability. Common anxieties are phobias, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), social anxiety, separation anxiety, and Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD). Students may have only one type of anxiety or they may have multiple anxieties that arise in different situations or at the same time. It is important that the student’s family communicate openly with the teachers, allowing them to have a better understanding of the student’s anxiety triggers.
What School Anxiety May Look Like in the Classroom
Anxiety is often disguised as something else, commonly ADHD or oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). While a child is battling anxiety, their rational thoughts escape, leaving them with only the tools needed to fight the anxiety that presents itself at the “fight or flight” level. This can lead to a lack of focus, fidgeting, a need to move, inability to listen to directions, crying, or repetitive actions. In more severe cases, a child feels such a need to flee the anxiety, that they use whatever means necessary to escape, possibly leaving a classroom or building. They are aware that the rules of school dictate that they stay in the classroom until permission is granted, but the anxiety is so strong that the rules are unable to be followed. At that moment, facing a consequence is a better option than continuing to feel the presence of anxiety. Many teachers and school staff see this as defiant behavior, as the child is defying the expectations, but it is merely a loud cry for help. (I should note, the student, when calm, needs to know that the choices he or she made were unacceptable. A plan should be put in place that would help ensure that the student has safe and effective options available when he or she feels anxiety building.) Students dealing with anxiety may often complain about physical symptoms such as stomach aches and pain, headaches, dizziness, blurry vision, or shortness of breath. These symptoms, while caused by anxiety, are real and should never be dismissed as fake.
How Teachers Are Helping Students with School Anxiety
Teachers take on many roles within the classroom- instructor, protector, doctor, dentist, and counselor- all while individually managing 25 or more children. There is no teacher who should be expected to fully manage the anxiety of a child in the classroom. There must be a team approach, as no one child should distract from the daily learning of the other children. The suggestions below can be implemented in the overall classroom environment, benefiting all students. Additional small tweaks can be made to help those with classroom anxiety. Anxiety in the classroom that is impacting a student’s emotional and academic well being must be handled with a team approach and not solely the responsibility of a classroom teacher. However, a teacher can positively impact an anxious student’s school experience by considering the follow strategies.
Educate Yourself and Form a Positive Relationship
As with all students, the student/teacher relationship is the single most important factor for student success. The same idea goes for an anxious child. From the beginning, a teacher should work to get to know the student, not only his or her anxiety. Find out about the student’s interests and hobbies, giving you topics to discuss when helping him or her through anxious moments. In addition to getting to know the student, gather information on understanding the anxiety- what are the triggers, what strategies calm the anxiety, how long does it typically last, and what signs show that you will need to ask for assistance.
Model Calmness
Model a calm reaction and response at all times, no matter how impatient or frustrated you may be feeling. Your body language, tone, and word choice need to convey that the child is safe, you are available and willing to help, and that the anxious feeling is just a part of the day and it will pass. Children are already embarrassed and feel guilty about interrupting or distracting others, but they simply are unable to navigate the anxiety alone. They must know they can come to you for support and it will be well received.
Consistency is Key
Second to forming positive teacher/student relationships, consistency and structure within a classroom are mandatory for all students success. Anxious students thrive when they know what is expected during the school day. Daily schedules should be available, whether in written or picture form. Changes to the schedule should be conveyed as soon as possible, allowing time for discussions and processing. For most students, extra recess is exciting, but for some students, this adds to their stress levels. Think about your day and do your best to plan ahead, allowing opportunities to inform students of the changes.
Expectations for class work, group work, projects, assessment, and homework should be clearly laid out. Accommodations such as reading individually rather than aloud, presenting a pre-recorded project rather than in front of the class, extra time for assignments and testing, and chunking should all be explained in detail so the child knows his or her options. Classroom seating can also be tricky for some students. Involve the student in decision making on where and whom to sit by, allowing his or her personal space to be a place of comfort and safety rather than a distraction. Classrooms can be quite small. Whenever possible, create a calm, quiet space where a child can retreat to when feeling overwhelmed. Add books, coloring materials, fidgets, and music to this space whenever possible.
Breaks
Many anxious children need opportunities to leave the classroom, either for movement or a quiet break. Many students are embarrassed to ask for the break or do not want to interrupt. I suggest using an item like a large pink eraser to place on a child’s desk. This is the cue that he or she is leaving and following the break plan implemented. Expectations for these breaks must be clearly set. Where does the child go for the quiet break? Must an adult accompany him or her? How long can the break last? What is the expectation in the break location? If the expectations are not followed, what happens? Most children who are using the break for appropriate reasons do not take advantage of these opportunities.
Transition
Transitions can be the most difficult part of the school day, especially when the transition is to a potentially chaotic situation such as lunch or recess. During these times, some anxious children enjoy an assigned buddy to help them navigate hallways or crowds. It also eases the fear that they may end up alone. For students who are not able to handle the cafeteria or playground, find a calm location where the child can enjoy his or her time with peers. A child should never be expected to spend their time alone, rather use this as an opportunity to build peer relationships. It works best for teachers to alternate between allowing the child to choose peers one day and assigning peers another day, allowing all children in the classroom the chance to interact.
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These simple strategies can be implemented fairly quickly and at no expense. Once implemented, all students can enjoy a positive classroom environment and anxiety in the classroom will diminish. As always, please email me or comment below with any questions or suggestions.
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Emily says
As a mom of a kiddo with anxiety this is a fantastic resource ! Definitely something that people need to have access to
Colleen says
Thank you so much for the positive feedback!
larakerrigannblog says
These are great tips! I love that so many teachers are incorporating “brain breaks” into the school day now. The kids love it!
Colleen says
Thank you. Brain breaks are so important to get the wiggles out and re-set the mind!
Jasmine - LoveLifeLaughMotherhood says
this is really helpful and informative. we need teachers to understand anxiety more so they can help their students
Colleen says
Thank you. You are so right about teachers being trained to help anxiety in students.
candy says
One of my children teaches special needs children. He is very much aware of what being anxiety does to a child. I will pass this on to him as he is always looking for ideas.
Colleen says
Special Education teachers are the best. Thank you!
Jalisa Harris says
My son suffers from ADHD and can get very anxious so I fully support this.
Colleen says
I am sorry to hear your son suffers. I hope he has a strong support system at school.
Victoria with One Sharp Mama says
Awesome tip for teachers here. I wish some of my teachers growing up could have had these tips to help some of the kids I grew up with. They acted out out of anxiety and boredom and caused distraction to those of us in the rest of the class
Colleen says
I look back on my school experience and feel the same way. Even today, I see kids in the classroom who are “misbehaving” but it is because they cannot handle their anxiety.
Bailey says
It’s so important to model calmness! A teacher that exhudes anxiety will pass that on to her classroom.
Colleen says
Amen!!!!
Colleen Mitchell says
You know, I really wish that kids received individualized teaching, so that incidents exacerbated by anxiety are rare (if existent). More teachers need to read this, and so do some college professors. In my final presentation in college the professor told us we weren’t allowed notecards because they “don’t let you have note cards in the real world.” He actually said that. It caused me so much anxiety to have to brute force memorize my presentation and I vividly remember blanking in the middle of speaking the next day. Every single other presentation in college, I was allowed some kind of notes or prompts – but not that class.
Colleen says
Teaching is such a challenge because of the number of kids in each class…making it hard to truly individualize instruction for all kids. However, knowing the needs of each kid is a must in order to reach them and help them succeed.
jplagens says
I am a substitute teacher. I think these are some great ideas on how to deal with anxiety in the classroom. Teachers have to wear a lot of hats. It is up to us to figure out how to reach our students and help them to feel good about their presence in the classroom. I find consistency, structure and boundaries help them to feel safe and secure. This is by far the best thing you can do at home and school.
Colleen says
Very well said. Teachers do wear a lot of hats…one of them being a safe person to help them grow in the way that is best for them.
Beth says
These are wonderful suggestions. One of my kids struggled in elementary school. They probably thought he had ODD, but one of the things he was allowed to do was go see the counselor whenever he needed. When he was in high school he was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. Looking back, I think he had anxiety all along.
Colleen says
I am sorry to hear he struggled. Visiting the counselor as needed if a great strategy for children at school.
Jordan says
Oh this is good! I don’t teach in a classroom but I do teach a gymnastics class and these tips are very helpful for that environment as well! Thank you for educating and sharing
Colleen says
It can be used in any situation where you are working with children. What a fun job…teaching gymnastics!
Erin (@herheartland) says
A very helpful and needed post! Thank you!
Colleen says
Thank you.
speakingjelinese says
Anxiety is something kids are dealing with more and more. Forming positive relationships is key to being able to help kids stay calm and relaxed in class. Good read!!!
Colleen says
You are right. Relationships are the key factor in student success, yet we often do not hear about this.
waynna says
These are all really helpful. I’m a homeschooler with an anxious tot so I’m going to implement some of these this weeks. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!
Colleen says
I am glad that you found them helpful. Often anxiety arises over the academic work rather than the location where the work is completed. I hope these suggestions help your tot.
Alaina says
You have some really great insight into this! Awesome post on the topic.
Colleen says
Thank you.
Ai | The Wise Budget says
Very informative post. I understand that it’s hard for most teachers to make adjustments for everybody, but this kind of adjustment is something that must be done to help kids. Hopefully future teachers will be more educated about this for the next generation (or even now)!
Colleen says
I hope that teachers also see the benefit of these small changes to help anxious students.
Michelle says
What an amazing guide for a teacher to read. I understand how it would be possible to mistake a child’s anxieties as misbehaviour but if teachers are educated on this then plans can be put in place to make the classroom a much better environment for both teachers & student
Colleen says
It is all about educating teachers and parents on what to look for and ways to help.